Had a really really great time this past weekend at Reynold’s and Stephanie’s wedding. All the old oxford kids together in one place. It’s taken me a while to recover, but i’m getting back into action for Sparkcon this weekend.
Wedding was beautiful, stephanie was gorgeous (she is incredibly photogenic), most everything went off without a hitch. Being the best man, I tried to give a good speech during the rehearsal dinner. After exausting resources at the dinner, we went to downtown oxford and *gasp* there was nothing going on.. So we walked to the exon at the corner of lindon that was already closed, even though it was midnight on friday. I talked the guy into opening up the store for us, begging that we only needed 2 more cases, and a shlitz for Reynolds to drink.
The wedding took place @ Hesters church a bit out in the country, a church where in fact my grandfather and great grandfather are buried. This church is so old, it still has the intact green shag carpetting throughout. Wedding went by pretty quick, vows were said, rings were exchanged, lips were met for the first time in a new context. We later headed to the henderson country club for the reception, which was also turned out to be the best time I’ve had in a long long time, but not after hardships. In something that could only be made up in a movie, reynolds grandfather passed away at some point during or after the wedding, and I was told this right as I walked in. Reynolds was informed after the first dance with his mom. Funny thing is had a sneaking suspicion that this was going to happen, and had talked to me about it weeks ago, worried that they could interfere with each other, and not wanting to be anxious, or feel regret if something was to happen. After hearing the news, reynolds was greeted by a bunch of people, and the mood grew somber for a bit. Then a person came up and said “Reynolds, you know that your grandfather wanted to be here so bad, that he passed on so he could watch from above, with your father”. whoa…..
The groomsmen all doubled up on stella’s and newkies, and took Reynolds outside so he could just breath and not have to worry about seeing anyone.. We reminded him there was nothing he could do about it, and that there wasn’t room for regret, that this day is about his new life with Stephanie. He cheered up, let loose, and we all headed back inside, with our partying shoes on..
Reynolds and Stephanie hired some great photographers to capture the afternoon, and I have to say they did a smashing job. R Lee Morris, out of Charleston, who had along a couple of assistants covered one end to the other, and I’m really scared to know the total amount of shutter actuations for the day. They really did a beautiful job capturing the emotion of the evening, and they even brought a long a little toy, their photobooth. This photobooth isabsolutely amazing – it inspires laugh out loud group participation, the gratification is immediate, and it produces beautiful results. The backbone of the booth is a big blow up projection screen, with a flash mounted inside to backlight the subjects. There’s also a strobe umbrella pointed down at the subjects, for a fill flash. There’s a remote control that activated a nikon DSLR on a tripod which was connected to a projector below it.
The idea is, you get a bunch of people in the frame, making crazy faces, lifting people up, whatever you want. Someone (anyone) has the remote, and snaps at will. Think digital largescreen polaroid style instant laughs on a big screen. After snapping a funny picture, all the people in the frame then move out of the way, and they, along with all the onlookers who have shuffled up procede to bust gut in laughter. Obviously the pictures get funnier as the night goes on, and ryan even said once he had a wedding party start to undress themselves at a particular reception. I think after it was all done, maybe 1000+ pictures had been taken, and I cannot wait to see them in all their glory. At times when I was out there watching it unfold, I looked around and said damn, I hope people are still dancing inside because it looks like the party came outside..
After dancing with an 82 year old woman who had a penchant for grabbing guys butts, and downing many many stella’s, we headed back for the afterparty, and Reynolds and stephanie headed to the umstead. Oh yea, I can’t leave out the impromptu street dance party we had on the way back. After jamming an allman brother tape into the land rover disco, Mike informed his mom to “Pull Over.. I want to dance!!”. We stopped on the side of the road, opened all the doors, and proceeded to dance like drunken monkies, howling at the full moon overhead, surely pulling sleeping neighbors to their windows, being it was already 12..
Lets just say I got to sleep @ 7 that morning.. I did get to play with the new nikon d90, which recorded some pretty great looking video using my sigma 30mm1.4 lens.. I also got to play with lee’s relic nikkor 50mm1.2, a lens I didn’t even know existed. Focus was paper thin, but razor sharp, and captured some great pictures… So that’s my weekend in a nutshell.
Plans for this coming weekend? Oh hell yes…
Sparkcon crazyness all around raleigh, including bikecon Thursday night, in addition to a special evening of local band local brew night @ Tir na nog. Urban sophisticates are playing sat night, which is always a must see.. Besides the fact that they’re all really nice guys, they strait rocked the cherry stage @ Raleigh Wide Open 3…
Here’s the link to the pretty incredible slideshow. turn your sound on for greater effect




















